Rekindling Relationships

Exploring Intimacy. Book no. 2. ’Learn to Love’, an Interview with Dr. Thomas Jordan

In our continuing exploration of books related to Intimacy, Bec and Vern interview Thomas Jordan Ph.D., a New York City psychologist/psychoanalyst, who has been studying and treating unhealthy love lives for more than 30 years. He also founded the Love Life Learning Centre website to better support couples.
 
Through studying the psychological ability to form and sustain healthy love relationships as well as treating the ways people unwittingly repeat the love life disappointments they have learned from their past unhealthy relationship experiences, he has written a fascinating book - 'Learn to Love’. In this book he explains what we learn about love relationships, how they interfere with our current lives and describes his formula of stopping the cycle of repeating unhealthy experiences.
 
Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life
https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/ 
 
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Tricky Questions no.6

In this episode of Tricky Questions, Bec and Vern discuss how to convince your partner to be more kinky, middle aged virgins who live with their parents, being an independent adult, Snowflake Mountain and what do you do if your new partner doesn't like your kids.
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Tricky Questions no.7

Bec and Vern discuss more Tricky Questions from social media including; what to do if your partner doesn’t want to go deeper in the relationship, what to say if they still have pictures of the ex on their phone, and how do you broach the subject of a marijuana habit. We also explore why your partner contacts their ex when they have been drinking and why husbands might not be as worried as you want them to be. 
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Intimacy 101 - Pressure

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. The first in this series regards Pressure and how we must prioritize the relationship despite the pressures of life. By focusing on our partner and our connection we can find support to deal with the daily pressures.
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Intimacy 102 - Porn

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In Intimacy 102, we discuss Pornography and how it can damage our intimate connection, distract us from properly relating and desensitize us from our physical bodies.
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Intimacy 103 – Process

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In our third part of this series, we discuss the importance of Process and how when we deal with our emotions and heal past experiences and trauma, we are better able to be more intimate with our partner.
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Intimacy 104 – Patience

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In this episode Intimacy 104 – Patience, we delve into how slowing things down and taking more time with our partner can improve intimacy in life and in the bedroom.
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Intimacy 105 – Presence

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. Our 5th episode in this series is on Presence and we discuss how we can use our senses, breath and techniques such as edging to be bring more awareness in our intimate space.
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Intimacy 106 – Pleasure

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. We discuss how to use vulnerability, roleplay, making noises and talking dirty to bring more pleasure into our intimate space.
 
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Intimacy 107 – Passion

Intimacy is an important part of being in a relationship and the lack of it can create many issues for couples. In this series, Bec and Vern explore 7 aspects of Intimacy they feel is essential for those wanting to create a deeper connection. In this episode, the final one of the series, we discuss how to create more Passion in our relationships. As well as bringing more affection into our daily lives together, we examine the value of communication and asking questions of your partner as well as carving out time together.
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