Rekindling Relationships

U is for Unfaithful

We all probably know what being unfaithful means. Bec and Vern speak about how this has impacted their own lives and discuss ways that we can be more honest and authentic in our relationships. 
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V is for Vulnerability

Why should we show more vulnerability in our relationships and how can we actually do it? Bec and Vern discuss how difficult it can be to be vulnerable with your partner and how it can bring you closer together. We believe there is great strength in vulnerability. 
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W is for Withdrawal

Why do people withdraw when they are in a relationship? Bec and Vern chat about what withdrawal looks like and how we can deal with it together so that it doesn't damage your relationship. 
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Eight Dates: To keep your relationship happy, thriving and lasting. By John Gottman
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X is for Exes

Talking about Exes can be tricky. Bec and Vern talk about how Exes can impact our relationships and what we can do to deal with them.  
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Y is for Yuk and Yum

What do we mean by Yuk and Yum? How does knowing our partner's yuks and yums bring us closer together and create more excitement in our relationships? Bec and Vern have an amusing chat about ways to find out your partners likes and dislikes. 
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Z is for Zero Sum Game

Zero Sum Game means for you to win, someone has to lose. How is this dynamic affecting your relationship? What can we do to improve the way we communicate with our partner and find a win-win scenario?
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Some great resources on making relationships work for you to check out-
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. By John Gottman
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Alphabet Soup for Couples Intro

Bec and Vern discuss their latest podcast season - 'Alphabet Soup for Couples'. They discuss why they decided to do an A-Z of relating and why they think these topics are important for relationships. 
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Different Upbringings

How do we navigate our own experiences of family and life as a child, with a partner from differing circumstances? How do we understand each other's experiences and not let them get in the way of being in relationship together?
Bec and Vern discuss the way our different upbringings can impact on our relationships and how we can better manage it. 
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Different Priorities

How do couples negotiate having different priorities about chores, work, leisure, children, family etc. How can these differences lead to disagreements and conflict? Why does Vern think that he does all the chores?
Bec and Vern discuss ways to manage our differences through having better conversations. 
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Different Parenting Styles

What are the different types of parenting styles and how do they impact our relationships? How do stop ourselves from reacting in the same way that our own parents did? How do we negotiate and navigate our own parenting style with our partners? 
Bec and Vern discuss their own parenting styles and how they have dealt with it in their blended family. 
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