Rekindling Relationships

In our continuing exploration of books related to Intimacy, Bec and Vern interview Thomas Jordan Ph.D., a New York City psychologist/psychoanalyst, who has been studying and treating unhealthy love lives for more than 30 years. He also founded the Love Life Learning Centre website to better support couples.   Through studying the psychological ability to form and sustain healthy love relationships as well as treating the ways people unwittingly repeat the love life disappointments they have learned from their past unhealthy relationship experiences, he has written a fascinating book - 'Learn to Love’. In this book he explains what we learn about love relationships, how they interfere with our current lives and describes his formula of stopping the cycle of repeating unhealthy experiences.   Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/    Check out our other episodes and please message us any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern    Thanks for listening!  

In this episode, Bec and Vern interview Laura Doyle about the 6 Intimacy Skills that she outlines in her book, ’The Empowered Wife’. We have a fun and lively chat about the importance of Self-care, Respect, Relinquishing control, being able to Receive, as well as Gratitude and Vulnerability.   Laura is the founder of the international relationship coach training school Laura Doyle Connect, the Creator of The Ridiculously Happy Wife program, host of The Empowered Wife Podcast and a New York Times Best Selling author. You can find out more about her work here- https://lauradoyle.org/    Check out our other episodes and please message us any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern  Thanks for listening!

Bec and Vern discuss tricky social media questions about fears and fetishes, introverts and intimacy. They explore how to ask for what you want and the importance of not taking our partners, friends and family for granted. We also find out why Bec does not liked to be tickled.  Check out our other episodes and please message us any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern  Thanks for listening!

Bec and Vern discuss and answer a diverse range of tricky social media questions. This includes; do age differences matter, why should you schedule date nights, attachment theory and sabotaging relationships, if once a cheater is always a cheater, and how to respond when your partner says your friend is more beautiful than you.  Hope you are enjoying our new format for 2022. Check out our other episodes and please message us any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern  Thanks for listening!

Bec and Vern continue to answer those tricky social media questions about faking orgasms, hangry dates, sexual meals and how old is too old to date. Hope you are enjoying our new format for 2022. Check out our other episodes and please message us any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern  Thanks for listening!

This episode was recorded live at a Rekindling Relationships Podcast in a Park event in Bendigo. Bec and Vern are joined by local sexologist Linda Kirkman and a live audience for a fun evening of random questions, useful information and strange prizes. Listen to find out how to get over an ex, why kissing is good for you, how many different types of orgasms there are, and why does Linda have a bag of 3D printed clitorises? We hope you enjoy this episode and please send us any of your own questions to www.facebook.com/becandvern  Check us out on YouTube and at https://rekindlingrelationships.com/

Bec and Vern answer those tricky social media questions about racist mothers, low sex drives and selfies.  Hi everyone, we are starting 2022 with a new format. We really hope you like it. Please let us know what you think and message us any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern  Thanks for listening!

Bec and Vern look to social media to find some interesting relationship questions to answer in our new format for 2022. We hope you enjoy this season and please send any questions or comments to https://www.facebook.com/becandvern . 

Is it time to say goodbye? Are you at a crossroads? Are you avoiding talking about it?Bec and Vern discuss how to have this very hard conversation about parting ways and why doing it can make you both happier. We believe that good healthy communication is the key to a great relationship and that with practice and patience everyone can be better at it. Check us out on Facebook and YouTube. https://www.facebook.com/becandvern 

Trauma affects many of us. In our past and also in our present. Identifying how it is impacting your life and communicating this with your partner can helps us process this pain and build a more loving relationship as we heal together. In this episode, Bec and Vern discuss how to be supportive of someone dealing with past trauma, whether it’s your partner or yourself. We believe that good healthy communication is the key to a great relationship and that with practice and patience everyone can be better at it. Check us out on Facebook and YouTube. https://www.facebook.com/becandvern